Moral siege: when the violence is guarded Text of Ana Lucia Rasp Sheep ' ' In the start, it is a censorship look, a pinprick without raising the voice. But the desire to humiliate increases gradual until the partner obtains to destroy auto-esteem of the woman, who if depresses and if culpa' '. (Ruth de Aquino- (journalist) the known form of moral siege more is the siege that occurs in the workstation, however it can occur in some scopes, not only in the professional space. The moral siege can be given inside of the family, in the institutions of education, and even though between couples. As it is a sufficiently extensive and complex subject, this text intends to only clarify the siege between the couples that is boarded the least and that however, can generate devastadoras psychological consequncias. Being based on the book moral Siege: the perverse violence in the daily one, the present text, beyond trying to clarify the concept of moral siege, intends to elucidate the main traces of the aggressors and what if it must make in a siege situation. The psychological effect can be destructive therefore are necessary to give attention and to know to identify the first signals and if not to be silent ahead of them.
The expressions harclement moral (moral siege) of France; bullying (to tiranizar) of England; mobbing (to molest) of the United States and murahachibu (social ostracism) of Japan mean what in Brazil it is called of moral siege. Psychiatrist Marie France Hirigoyen in its book moral Siege: the perverse violence in the daily one, also gave to greater repercussion to the subject approaching all the debated forms of siege less. The psychiatrist affirms: ' ' Small perverse acts are so current that they seem normal Start with a simple lack of respect, a lie or a Manipulation. We do not find this insuportvel, not to be that let us be directly atingidos' '.